The Engagement Ring

An engagement ring is given to a woman to signify never-ending and immortal love. It also symbolizes a commitment to a life together. The engagement ring should never be worn until both the bride and future bridegroom are legally free to marry.

An engagement ring is not always required for one to be “officially” engaged. An engagement ring can be purchased later in the marriage when the couple can afford it, or it can be a romantic way to celebrate a special wedding anniversary.

An engagement ring can be new or antique. It can be purchased from a showcase or it can be custom-designed.

 

Traditionally, the man selects and purchases the engagement ring on his own, and the couple choose the wedding bands during the engagement period together (unless the engagement ring already comes with a wedding band).
Caveat emptor (let the buyer beware):

– If the ring is to be a surprise, ensure that the ring is capable of being sized. It is often better to buy the correct size of ring. (If the bride’s ring size is unknown – discretely ask those close to the bride, as long as they can keep it a secret.)

– Always make your purchase from a reputable and knowledgeable jeweler. Look for certification by the American Gem Society. Also, invest or borrow a loupe to see the metal engravings on the ring yourself. Don’t take the salespersons word for it. If buying a diamond, bring an ultraviolet light with you. A real diamond will appear a bluish color. Get everything in writing – sizing, repair and return policy.

– If buying a ring from an antique dealer – be extra careful to make sure you are getting what you are paying for. Examine the ring carefully with a loupe and ultraviolet light. Get everything in writing, including certification of the type of gem and material the ring is made of.

– Insure the ring immediately.